During that chapter we'd stand face to face in our bedroom with the news.
News that Bill's Uncle Art passed. Not really an uncle by blood, but you know those members of your clan that were there while your parents raised you. The friends you camped with, and the cousins you'd learn that even though you weren't blood, you carried a common bond. You became cousins. You soon would grow older together, and although busy in this life, you still carry that common bond as adults. Cousins in life.
The best friend that stood there with you as your Mom left this Earth.
Parents.
Your parents.
Gathering, and just being together. Camping. Boating. Road trips.
The involvement made him your uncle.
He'd soon become a mentor to you. The one that encouraged you to "get a place up here on the lake Billy"
"You'll like it here better"
The one that would stop by and give us the biggest hugs, and a firm pat on the back. Always firm.
He'd hug me, and always smile the biggest smile of affirmation. That he was proud of us.
He was most importantly proud of Bill.
He'd walk in drinking his grape soda.
Looking around to make sure we kept up on our game. Cleanliness. Always cleanliness.
He was so proud of Bill. "Billy"-
How he up-kept the boat. How he maintained the house. And all the little chores he kept up on.
Art. He taught Bill a thing or two about all those "fatherly" things.
Bill walked into our room, and said "Art passed"-
A million thoughts flashed over me. We knew the time would come sooner than later.
But man.
He's gone.
We cried together. We cried hard actually. We finally let out the many tears we've really held in.
Art, you are a fine man. A hardworking hard man. You certainly taught us a thing or two.
You will be missed.
The last year of his life was covered by Alzheimer's Disease. The last few visits with him became scrambled.
Just last week we decided we wanted to remember him the way we left off.
Rest easy Art. I hope there are a million and one cans of grape soda for you wherever you are.
We miss you already.
As I get my world back together from being gone, be a little patient.
We had a time filled with family, friends, and lots and lots of love.
Love always wins.
I hope you all had a fabulous weekend too.
Filled with love. And beautiful things.
Happy Birthday Trev! Love you little cousin. The one with the most awesome laugh on this Earth.
xo
Leese
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