Tuesday, August 3, 2021

Follow The Sun.

 Soaking up the days of summer as we watch the sun fall a little earlier each day. 

Gathering with friends on the dock.  

Loving a friend and wiping away tears from sadness as she watches a loved one prepare to leave this beautiful Earth from a brain tumor.  

The shit ball diagnosis of Cancer. 

Top on more pandemic fears and confusion and life just gets troubling hard at times.

Welcome August though, am I right?

My sisters birthday month.  My cousins birthday month.  MY SONS 32nd Birthday this month. 

Grateful. 

The past week offered us bike rides, laughter, too much wine, sunsets with the six-pack, more laughter and tears listening to music on the dock. 

Mama's lunches have become my speciality.  As my sister calls me, UBER Eats mom.  Nothing better than a good ol' organic salad prepared by mama.  Dropped at your home desk.  I've learned to make my own dressing, which just adds to my mama heart.  

Can't wait to get back and hug my other birdie soon....


Friday's windiest bike ride. Cliffs of HB.  Lots of memories there as a little girl.  Sliding down ice plants. Before bike paths, dog beach and picnic tables.  We'd have a sack lunch in hand, Laura Scudder peanut butter and jelly sandwich, chips and a drink to watch our dad.  It's those happy memories I try to remind my dad when he's extra hard on himself.  A reminder to me, that he didn't have a manual to parenting.  Much less a good role model. 


Trying to set the timer.  Several attempts. Wild wind.  And lots of patience for me. Bill is relentless when in pursuit to make something work. 



I bought the Ezequiel wraps from Trader Joes.  Note to you all. Don't. Do.  It.  Like eating cardboard. Thinly sliced cardboard.  A paper-towel, if you will.  LOL-  The insides were delish as I added enough of our  turkey, greens, veggies and sauces etc.  But the wrap? No Bueno.  All the sides made up for the wrap fail-  


Long Beach Yacht Club for Wet Wednesday- What you can't see is a band playing in the back right side corner.  The problem?  Us ol' gals couldn't find a seat because they WERE ALL OCCUPIED BY KIDS!  grrrrowl.  Never in my life did I think that would come out of my mouth.  HAHAHA!  
We still had a great seat, and the sunset was kick ass over the top.  So that made up for those screaming wet brats.  just kidding. 

Two of our six-pack had us over on Saturday to enjoy dinner, a sunset and good wine. 



I am getting my hair done tonight.....so you know when the slick bun comes out, le grey's are having a part party up on top.  Those fellers are relentless.....


Twas a beautiful night, that's for sure....


Sunday I took off for a long walk along the shoreline of Bolsa.  The perk to this morning was the many families unpacking their day for the beach.  The smiles on everyones faces.  A place I take for granted some mornings.  I had music playing in my ears, and a few times I teared up, watching humans.  Smiling.  Laughing.  Hugging.  Touching the salt water with such happiness.  

It was a sweet walk.  


I send you off with love.  With peace.  And mostly with good health. 


Stay in touch with those you love.  Those that add goodness to your life.


Let go of the rest.  


Much love,


This Mama Lisa 


Follow The Sun

Follow the Sun

Follow, follow the sun
And which way the wind blows
When this day is done
Breath, breath in the air
Set your intentions
Dream with care
Tomorrow is a new day for everyone
A brand new moon, brand new sun
So follow, follow the sun
The direction of the birds
The direction of love
Breath, breath in the air
Cherish this moment
Cherish this breath
Tomorrow is a new day for everyone
Brand new moon, brand new sun
When you feel love coming down on you
Like a heavy wave
When you feel this crazy society
Headin' to the strand
Take a straw to the nearest waters
And remember your place
Many moons have risen and fallen long, long before you've came
So which way is the wind blowin'
And what does your heart say?
So follow, follow the sun
And which way the wind blows
When this day is done...



Wednesday, July 28, 2021

Never Drink Boring Wine.

Or in my case, I say never drink wine from a terrible glass if you can help it. 

Is it me or do you feel like good wine is insulted when served in those cheesy little glasses....

We had quite the beautiful weekend out in Santa Barbara exploring.  Some new places, some not so new.

Tucked away at The Casa Del Mar, a small quaint hotel near the ocean, the Funk Zone and most importantly so close to all the wineries that surround Santa Barbara.  Santa Ynez, Buellton and of course Santa Barbara.

My happiness was the quiet walks in the morning.  Alone. A quiet town. New surroundings. The ocean air, and the aroma of food being prepped by tiny places waiting for the rush. 

Get out. 

Go play. 

Explore. 

But mostly, enjoy the fine things that this Earth has to offer.  

On our way into town we pulled into Carpinteria -  Exit Santa Clause Lane to an amazing restaurant called Padero's.  Order your food, have a seat on a bench and enjoy..


Ya I know I over wear my Lucky Mozy hat....it's okay.  She sends me off with good luck and good times. 



Get the Tuna Melt- There's only one other place other than home that I'll have tuna, and that's Jan's Health Food in HB.  And here.  The end. 

We stopped in The Funk Zone for a pre-Happy Hour and a little cheer for Jodee- It was her actual birthday!  Happy Birthday Jodes! 

Checked into our little place, then dinner at Brophy's!  







Brophy's is known for some of the best seafood.  As for me and my soul.....we like le wine.  But would you look at those meesly glasses?!  come on.......

AND........A.N.D.  We tried to get birthday cake (Jodee is like me, we don't like the singy singy birthday song) and they told us they don't have dessert.  Because they don't have room for it in their kitchen. 

Wait, what.  WHAT. 

Anyway, let's let the view make up for that bullshiz. 



Also, if you've hung around me long enough you know how the only thing I have going for me is my hair. And even that shits falling out.  So when you see me in hats all day every day....just know....I KNOW.  But the hat hair was off the charts.  So just move along kids move along. 

And if you're blessed to be younger than your friend Lisa, just wait.  You....just. wait. 

We woke on Friday,  I bailed for a glorious walk along State St.  Smiling at every human that would make eye contact with me.  (which is slim)- Humans are so serious these days.  Maybe it's still the mask safety lol.

We'd shower and take off for the best winery in all the land. 

Roblar.  If you don't make it here someday, we can't be friends.  lol











Hat. Hair.  

Off to Los Olivos. 








Her name is"Winter"-   Grumpy lady working the counter here, but the kitty and the view made up for it...

Silver linings kids, silver linings....



Then over to Buellton....

Where we razzed Maria for what we thought was a restaurant she recommended for a late lunch, turns out, we were in the wrong spot.  Look at their wine glass....

I can't. 




Guess it was a good pour so we'll let it slide. 

Wine glass snob?

Here's the difference in a beautiful glass, and a standard.  







Winter says, stop.   HAHAHAH!

Anyway....

Saturday morning I took off on my walk, had a long chat with my bestie, came back with plans for us to get feet rubs at this tiny little place, where they put us out back.  As awkward as it was walking in, it was worth the 30 minutes laying down and having those little massages.

Also, another fact about your friend Lisa.  I get random laughter bouts in situations like this.  You have no idea how hard it was to not roll off the bed laughing.  I could not look at Bill.  

Anyway, it was so worth it.  Our day would include brunch after that, then a trip up to Cold Springs Tavern.  Tucked up in the hills.....haven't been?  Go.  

Go on a Saturday when live good music is playing.  Good folks.  Amazing food.  Good times.





Found the place on my morning walk, along with this statue of a window cleaner.  Made of fiberglass...
Looks pretty real, huh..



God Bless America 



Sandbar, best brunch on State St. 
Anyway....here's Cold Springs Tavern.







Beautiful afternoon there.  Met some nice folks.  PERFECT weather....
Made it back to our room in time to grab my blanket, good bottle of wine teeny plastics I brought to catch the sunset. 





And right about here folks is where our weekend of fun was melting into the silly pot. 


What a great weekend.  Only the four pack this time.  

Six pack missing two wheels, but we made a great weekend into more memories to fill our chapter books for many many years to come.  


Not here for a long time.  Get out, make those reservations.  And go play. 


Here's a song for you...

The Older I Get.....

The older I get
The more I think
You only get a minute, better live while you're in it
'Cause it's gone in a blink
And the older I get
The truer it is
It's the people you love, not the money and stuff
That makes you rich



Love to you all- Stay safe. Love hard on those that matter.  Especially your birdies.

And never drink boring wine.

Do your best and fight like hell to get good wine glasses.

You deserve em.

Better live while you're in it. 

PEACE. 

This Mama Lisa